Why You Can’t Focus in Meetings Anymore (And What to Do About It)

Ever find yourself sitting in a meeting, physically present… but mentally somewhere else?

You’re nodding, smiling, maybe even taking notes and in your head?

You’re:

• Rewriting your pitch deck

• Solving internal team drama

• Running cash flow numbers

• And bracing for your next investor call

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All. At. Once.

This isn’t a 'You' problem.

This is what I call Founder Brain, and it’s maxed out.

You’re Not Distracted. You’re Overloaded.

Let’s drop the myth that you “just need to focus more.

”This isn’t about discipline. It’s about capacity.

Your calendar is packed.

Your inbox is overflowing.

And your nervous system? It’s in overdrive! Constantly responding, reacting, and anticipating what’s next.

Meetings become noise.

Even the ones you care about.

Because when your system is stretched too thin, it starts prioritizing survival over attention.

What’s Really Happening

Most founders operate in what I call “productive panic”, the state of being constantly ON.

You’re running a business.

You’re managing people.

You’re holding the vision and putting out daily fires.

Eventually, this mode becomes your default.

You normalize the tension in your jaw, the tightness in your chest, and the wandering mind.

But this isn’t sustainable, for you or the people you lead.

You Don’t Need a Break. You Need a Reset.

Burnout doesn’t show up in dramatic crashes.

It shows up in small moments like this when your body signals it's had enough, but you override it.

The fix? Start small.

Here's a 5-second nervous system reset (Founder-style):

• Drop your shoulders. Feel the weight you’ve been carrying.

• Exhale (slowly). As if that breath was your only job.

• Let your system pause. Just for a moment.

  
  

This isn’t meditation.

This is self-leadership in real time.

You can do this between Zoom calls.

In the elevator.

Even during a meeting.

Regulation > Hustle

In high-stress leadership, we often confuse momentum with effectiveness.

But here’s the truth:

If you don’t pause, your body eventually will, and it won’t ask for permission.

Taking micro-moments to reset your nervous system isn’t a luxury.

It’s a leadership strategy.

It helps you:

• Regain clarity

• Make better decisions

• Stay emotionally available to your team

• Avoid reactive burnout loops

This Is the Work

As a founder, you carry the weight of vision, responsibility, and performance.

But if your system is fried, your presence dims, and so does your ability to lead with impact.

This is the hidden work no one talks about.

And it starts with one breath.

Ready to lead from a grounded, focused place, without burning out?

I help founders, business owners, and high-performers regulate their inner systems so they can lead powerfully and sustainably.

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Constantinos